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20. Have I exercised no watchfulness over
the company-keeping of my adolescent sons and daughters, permitting and
encouraging them to spend
long hours alone and in dangerous circumstances?
21. Have I bought or sold, lent or given, obscene books or magazines or other
objects to be used
for impure purposes?
II. VENIAL SINS
1. Have I, without a reason, read books or magazines that were at least
dangerous, or
concerned only with impassioned love?
2. Have I allowed my eyes to wander in curiosity over dangerous objects?
3. Have I been slow and half-hearted in trying to banish bad thoughts and
desires?
4 . Have I permitted decent expressions of love or friendship for another to be
prolonged to the
point of danger of lust?
5. Have I gone to shows or movies that I knew to be somewhat dangerous, at least
in port?
6. Have I been careless about my clothing, posture, appearance, thus exposing
others to some
danger?
7. Have I shown half-deliberate interest in the evil conversation of others?
8. Have I, on the spur of the moment, uttered double-meaning words or phrases?
9. Have I sought out or continued companionship with others whom I knew to be
in
lined to evil jests and words?
10. Have I supported the publishers of daring and dangerous picture magazines or
of
border line periodicals by buying or spreading their publications in any way?
11. Have I neglected to use special opportunities of grace and prayer when I was
passing
through a period of more than usual temptation?
12. Have I failed to check vigorously impulses and daydreams of unruly love and
affection?
III. HELPS AND COUNSELS
1. Have I learned the necessity of praying daily for the grace to remain pure?
2. Have I acquired the habit of saying an ejaculatory prayer when evil thoughts,
desires or
inclinations arise?
3. Have I made regular or frequent use of the Sacraments of Confession and Holy
Communion as a
means of strength against impurity?
4. Have I practiced any special devotion to Mary, the Virgin Mother of God,
whose example and
intercession are powerful aids to purity?
5. Have I trained my will power for strength in temptation by practicing some
form of voluntary
mortification?
6. Have I tried to avoid idleness, daydreaming, sloth, knowing that to keep
occupied is one of
the best defenses against impurity?
7. Have I made known even my serious temptations in confession, realizing that
to reveal
temptations is to gain strength against them?
8. Have I been diligent in observing even the smaller rules of modesty, such as
not to touch others
even carelessly, and not to let my eyes wander too freely in public?