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Misunderstanding arises
in the minds of
some by the oft-quoted principle: In matters of chastity there is no lightness
of matter; every sin
is a grave sin. This is true, it must be known, in regard to all direct and
volun
tary desires and indulgences in sex-pleasure outside of marriage or contrary to
the purpose of
sex. Nevertheless, some sins against chastity may be venial because of lack of
full consent of the
will, or because of lack of full deliberation, or because an action, such as a
momentary indecent
glance, or a passing thought, could not be called gravely inducive to sinful
consent.
Self-examination on the virtue of chastity must keep these fundamental
principles in view.
MORTAL SINS
1. Have I deliberately taken delight in impure thoughts and images in my mind
after I recognized
them to be evil?
2. Have I knowingly consented to a desire for impure experiences, without any
effort to suppress
the desire?
3. Have I taken part in impure conversation for the express purpose of giving
others bad thoughts
or with the realization that they would probably consent to bad thoughts?
4. Have I gone out of my way to hear impure conversation or taken sinful
pleasure in it when I
heard it?
5. Have I read obscene books or looked at obscene pictures after I knew that
they would cause
serious temptations to sins of impurity?
6. Have I gone to
places where I knew the entertainment was lewd and immoral, or at
tended obscene stage shows or movies?
7. Have I touched others impurely, or taken part in prolonged and intense kisses and ernbraces?
8. Have I caused or consented to solitary lust?
9. Have I taken part in
sins of lust with others, and were they married or single, of the same sex
or the opposite sex?
10. Have I sinned with someone related to me by blood or affinity?
11. Have I added sacrilege to the sin of impurity by desiring, or attempting, or
consenting to
sin with a person consecrated to God?
12. Have I made animals a means or an occasion of seriously sinful actions?
13. Have I forced another to submit to my lustful actions?
14. Have I encouraged others to sin against purity or told them that they could
not avoid it?
15. Have I exposed
others to grave danger by impure signs, actions or exposure?
16. (FOR MARRIED PERSONS) Have I used con
traceptive means whether natural (such as interruption) or artificial (such as
instruments) in
performing marriage duties?
17. Have I, without a good reason, refused or neglected to render the marriage
obligation when
seriously asked?
18. Have I, as a married person, committed sins of impurity with others, and
were they married or
single?
19. Have I failed to correct or train my children in regard to chastity when it
was evident that
there was need of such correction or training?